Finding the Right Parenting Partner Takes Time

Once you have committed to finding a parenting partner to raise a child with together, you need to take your time to find the right match. This piece of advice may come off as obvious or as a no brainer, but the truth of the matter is that when you are finally are ready to take the next step in your life and be a parent, you may experience excitement and be anxious to get started. Only you can determine the proper length of time in getting to know someone before entering into a parenting partnership, but as a general rule of thumb, a minimum of six months is recommended. There’s a lot you need to discuss and get to know about your potential partner, so take time in doing so. A lot can happen in a short period of time and you may come to realize that it’s not a perfect match, so it’s best to always proceed with caution and not let your overwhelming feelings of wanting a child take over.

A parenting partnership first and foremost is a friendship. Besides good personal chemistry, a true bond between partners needs to be formed. Being able to always be honest and communicate frequently is a must. Spending time together and being comfortable with your partner will help strengthen or form a friendship.  And don’t be disappointed if after some time it’s just not the right match. The best interest of a child is in the balance so being firm with yourself and your feelings needs to take priority. For more detailed and in length articles about everything and anything parenting partnerships, click here to be taken to our LEARN section of our site.